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About The Author
Amy North is a world-renowned women’s
dating coach with nearly a decade of
experience helping women build happy,
loving relationships with the man of their
dreams.
She is also the author of the #1 best-
selling program “The Devotion System,”
which is widely regarded as the best and
most comprehensive guide for women fed up with dating and frustrated by an
endless cycle of heartbreak after heartbreak.
Amy North’s YouTube channel boasts over 60,000 subscribers and millions of views,
and her website features a full-length free video presentation sharing a number of
sneaky psychological tactics to make a man fall in love with you.... and forget about
every other woman on earth.
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When you meet “The One,” you’ll probably be the happiest you’ve ever
felt . . . but the idea of losing him to someone else may also be a
terrifying thought for you.
The good news is that there’s a way to keep your man happily
monogamous. By learning how to “cheat-proof” your relationship, you’ll
never have to worry about him leaving you or being unfaithful.
To help you understand what you can do to keep him loyal, I’ve divided
this book into four sections.
● Why Do Men Cheat?
● What Makes A Lasting Love?
● Signs Your Man Is Cheating
● How to Prevent Cheating in Your Relationship
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Why Do Men Cheat?
Cheating and infidelity can happen in any relationship—weak or strong,
old or new. Sometimes affairs are for love, and other times, it’s just about
the sex.
While there’s no single reason for why a man may choose to be unfaithful,
there are a handful of reasons and excuses that arise again and again.
To Avoid Intimacy
This reason can be confusing, especially if your man is already in an
intimate relationship with you. However, psychiatrists have said that
often times men cheat to avoid real intimacy. In other words, they do it to
avoid relying on one person, which, in their eyes, means they can avoid
getting hurt. Ironic, right?
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To Have Variety
This can be a tough truth to swallow, but some men cheat just because
they crave variety. Sure, he may love the bones of you, but since you’re
just one person it can be tough to
fulfill all of his desires, especially
if those desires are to be with a
variety of women.
To Gain Power
Some men cheat because they
feel it empowers them in their
relationship; they have the upper
hand by being unfaithful, and therefore have less to lose. Now I’m not
saying this is right, and as a woman this may seem outrageous, but studies
have shown that this is how some guys defend their actions: It makes
them feel manly.
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To Find Intimacy
On the other end of the spectrum, some men search for intimacy outside
of their relationship. Since couples can drift apart over time, some men
find it easier to fulfil their sexual and intimacy needs by finding them
elsewhere rather than talking with their partner about the decline in their
shared intimacy. This is a prime example of why communication is so
important!
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To Spice Things Up
In the beginning of a relationship, couples can’t seem to get enough of
each other. However, as time passes, and partners become more
comfortable with one another, it’s not uncommon for sex to get less
exciting, too. This is why some men cheat: because they crave that
newness and excitement again, and since they can’t get it from their
partner, they go looking elsewhere. That said, there are ways to prevent
this from happening and to keep your relationship fresh and exciting,
which I’ve explained in more depth in the free video on my website.
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To Please Others
Men aren’t always as in control as you think. A common reason why many
men cheat is simply because they lack the willpower to say no. So, if a
beautiful woman comes onto them, they’re weak, and go along with it.
Instead of staying faithful to their partner, they give into a sexual affair
simply because the opportunity arose and they weren’t strong enough to
turn her down.
To Relive the Rush
Not every cheater is a repeat offender, but chances are if your man has
cheated—and got away with it—then he’ll likely think he can do it again.
In order to break this habit, it’s crucial that he figures out what drove him
to cheat in the first place. Who knows, he could be cheating because he
only cares about himself, or because your relationship lacks something
important to him.
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What Makes a Lasting Love?
When it comes to a healthy, loving relationship, there are certain mental
and physical components that need to be in place for it to go the distance.
To help cheat-proof your relationship, make sure that these components
are an everyday part of your lives together. It’s when these key elements
start to dissipate that trouble arises.
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Kiss Every Day
As Charles Dickens once said, “Never close your lips to those whom you
have already opened your heart.” In other words, keep kissing the man
you love.
To keep your man faithful, it’s important that you keep the spark alive
between you. So often couples make it past the honeymoon stage and
slowly stop kissing each other. To keep the relationship fresh, make a
point to kiss your partner daily.
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Create a Loving Mindset
It’s been proven that when you see your partner as the handsomest,
smartest or funniest person in the room, your relationship will last longer,
and be more emotionally satisfying. To do this, make a point to remind
yourself how wonderful your man is, and let him know how you feel about
him. When you do it’ll work wonders on cheat-proofing your relationship.
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Grow Together
This one is a big one. When relationships get stagnant it’s common for
couples to break up, cheat, or at least consider the possibility of another
partner.
To keep your relationship on track it’s important that you and your man
are always growing together. Picking up new interests, exploring new
places, and trying new things together will help you grow both as
individuals and as a couple.
Be Positive
So many people let the little annoyances in life bring them down, and
without realizing it that negative energy creeps into their love life. To keep
your relationship on the right track, focus on the positives and to find a
way to fall in love with your life every day. By finding your passions and
practicing them often, they’ll not only reflect positively in your
relationship, but they’ll also make it stronger.
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Keep Your Independence
Early in a relationship it can be easy to get swept up in wanting to spend
all your time with your man. However, as tempting as it may be to
monopolize one another’s time, it’s important that you give each other
space and keep your personal interests and hobbies alive. Spending every
waking moment together may sound nice, but over time it will result in
someone getting bored. What’s worse is that when boredom breeds,
trouble arises. To avoid this from happening encourage your man to take
on his own personal pursuits.
Be Romantic
Keeping the spark alive between you and your man is crucial for cheat-
proofing your relationship. Since romance and intimacy are two of the
most important components of a loving relationship, you should always
be looking to for new ways to keep your flame burning. It can be tough
and requires an open mind, but it’s totally worth it.
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If you notice the signs of a relationship that’s starting to become stale,
TAKE ACTION! Start by visiting my website and watching the free video
that I’ve posted on the homepage.
Create Shared Interests
Since couples that build a history together have something to lose, it
makes cheating less likely to happen in their relationship. This is why
creating shared experiences and interests can help cheat-proof your
relationship.
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To get started, pick an activity and do it together. Whether it’s a cooking
class or co-ed Frisbee league, trying new things with your man is one of
the best ways to keep your relationship exciting and full of love.
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Signs Your Man Is Cheating
When you suspect that your man may be cheating on you, it’s not
uncommon to feel crushingly devastated. As you scramble to make sense
of your emotions and theories, you may even consider sharing your
concerns with him. If you do go this route and he brushes off your
worries, it may be hard to believe him. In these instances it’s important
that you trust your gut, and keep an eye out for these signs.
He’s Moody
If your man is cheating on you, then he may be feeling guilty or ashamed
of his actions. If this is the case, then he’ll probably look for somewhere to
unload those feelings. So then, if you notice that your man has been
moody or is picking fights with you, then it could be his way to destress.
Instead of riding out his emotions, get to the root of the problem by
asking why he’s being so argumentative.
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Also take note if communication between the two of you starts to fade. If
your man is the kind of person who always has something to say and yet
he’s become quiet or distant, then it may be because he’s scared of
slipping up. This happens often when someone has had an affair or has
made a shameful mistake.
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He’s Distant, Panicked or Distraught
Handling an affair is a balancing act, which means that if your man is
cheating, he’s going to have to be extra careful when it comes to keeping
his stories straight. So, if you notice that his schedule is changing, or he
scrambles for words anytime you ask him a question, then alarm bells
should be ringing. That said, sometimes change is inevitable, so don’t
jump to assumptions too quickly.
Also note his body language. If your man is worried about you finding out
what he’s been up to, then you may catch him looking distant or fearful.
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He Smells Different
This one sounds cliché, but
clichés exist for a reason. If your
partner is coming home smelling
like a perfume or lotion you
don't wear, then he’s probably
been close with someone who is
wearing it.
You’ve Discovered Evidence
If you’ve noticed random hairs, lipstick smudges, or other unknown
belongings kicking around his house, car or office then you should be
asking questions. That said, it’s important not to get wrapped up in
playing detective; if you’re mistaken then starting something out of
nothing can be destructive to your relationship.
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He Adopts New Lingo
Have you ever noticed that when you spend enough time around
someone you start to speak like them, or pick up their interests? Well, it’s
true!
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If you notice that your man has become interested in things he hated or
ignored before, or starts using new words or phrases, it could be because
he is absorbing someone else’s interests. While this doesn’t prove that
he’s having an affair, it is an important sign to watch out for.
He Wants to Fly Solo
If you and your man used to enjoy running errands together or attended
events side by side, and now, he wants to do “his own thing,” then it
could be because he’s up to no good.
If it feels like your man is worried about being seen with you then it could
be because he’s afraid of who else may see. Now this sounds ridiculous,
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